McKinley, Sheila M.

Rochester: Sheila passed away on March 11, 2018 after a long illness. She was predeceased by her parents Francis and Mary McKinley, siblings Joseph, James (Ann), John & Thomas McKinley. She is survived by her sister Mary Ann (Kurt) Hoyer of Chili, brother Michael (Carol Ludden) McKinley of Andover, NY sisters in law Margaret of Chili & Mary Frances McKinley of Colton, NY, special nieces, nephews, cousins and muffs.

Family and friends may call on Thursday, March 15, 2018 from 4-6 pm at James R. Gray Funeral Home, 1530 Buffalo Road. Sheila's Funeral Mass will be held on Friday, March 16, 2018 at 10:30 am at St. Christopher’s Church, King Rd. @ Rt 259 in N. Chili. Private iInterment in Andover, NY. Kindly consider donating to the American Cancer Society or the Palliative Care Unit at U of R Medical Center in her memory.


Steinmetz, Teresa M.

Chili: Teresa passed away on March 5, 2018. She was predeceased by her husband Richard Steinmetz.  She is survived by her daughter Shirley Hoyt; grandchildren Isabella & Joshua; father Thomas Breslin; sisters Kathleen Raschiatore, Marilyn (Fred) Vos and Elizabeth Breslin; brother David (Diana) Breslin and 7 nieces.

Services and interment private.


Vander, Carl “Ed”

Bergen: Ed passed away on February 22, 2018 at age 76. He was predeceased by parents Carl and Evelyn and siblings Tom, Donna, Paul and Wayne.  He is survived by his loving wife JoAnn, son Mark (Eileen) Vander; daughter Tracy Vander; grandchildren Sandra & Carl Vander; sisters-in-law Kay Knop and Alice Sposato; and a number of nieces; nephews & cousins. Carl loved golfing with his friends and was an active member of Gates Presbyterian Church. He retired from Eastman Kodak Company.  Carl was always there for his family and will truly be missed.

Family and friends are invited to a Celebration of Carl’s Life on Sunday, February 25, 2018 at 2 pm at Gates Presbyterian Church, 1049 Wegman Road. Expressions of sympathy can be made to the Church in Carl’s memory.


Longbine, Beverly J.

Chili: Beverly passed away on February 21, 2018. She was predeceased by her parents Howard & Gladys (Betteridge) Longbine. She is survived by cousins Carol (James) Reynolds, Shirley (Larry) DeWolf, Barbara Burnell, Mary (Ken) DeRosa; other relatives & good friends.  Beverly enjoyed bowling, golf and was an avid euchre player.

No prior calling. Family & friends are invited to her Funeral Mass on Tuesday, February 27, 2018 at 10 am at St. Jude the Apostle Church, 4100 Lyell Ave.Interment to follow in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. Kindly consider donating to a charity of choice in her memory.


Ehle, Richard S.

Gates: Dick passed away on February 8, 2018. He is survived by his loving wife Pauline; children Charlene (Steven) Paiement, Ronald (Helen) Ehle; grandchildren Gregory, Lauren & Keven Paiement, Kaitlyn & Alexandra Ehle. Dick was a Chemist and retired from Eastman Kodak Company.

Family & friends are invited to a Celebration of Dick’s Life on Saturday, February 17, 2018 at 10 am at Church of the Epiphany, 3285 Buffalo Road. Burial at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, kindly consider donating to the Aurora House, 2495 South Union Street, Spencerport, NY 14559 or the James P. Wilmot Cancer Center in Dick’s memory.


Feeley, Marilyn

Greece: Marilyn passed away on February 7, 2018. She is survived by a loving & devoted sister Roberta; brother-in-law Jack; niece Amy; along with other family members & a mountain of lifelong friends. Marilyn loved life, music & knew every word to songs on the radio. A huge Bills fan, she could be found at Bills Camp every summer. A special thank you to Lifetime Assistance for their care & service.

Services & interment at the convenience of the family. Donations can be made to Lifetime Assistance Inc., 425 Paul Road, Rochester, NY 14624 or the Alzheimer’s Association, 435 E. Henrietta Road, Rochester, NY 14620 in Marilyn's memory.


Mary G. Medema (Condon)

Gates: Mary died peacefully January 31, 2018 at age 99. She was predeceased by her husband Edward; siblings Margaret, Alice, Leo & Hugh. She is survived by her children Mary “Peg” (Marcus) Folts, Ellen “Chris” Simpson, Peter (Nancy) Medema, Adrianna “Adie” (Charlie) Ball & Julie (John) Williams; 13 grandchildren; 10 great-grandchildren & many beloved nieces & nephews. After serving overseas in the rank of Captain during WWII as a Registered Nurse, Mary was in charge of the medical units as the Nursing Supervisor at Rochester General Hospital for 15 years.

Viewing hours will be at James R. Gray Funeral Home, 1530 Buffalo Road, Rochester, NY on Sunday, February 4, 2018 from 1-3 pm. Mary's Funeral Mass will be held Monday, February 5, 2018 at 10 am at St. Helen’s Church, 310 Hinchey Road, Rochester, NY. Interment to follow in White Haven Memorial Park, 210 Marsh Road in Pittsford, NY. Contributions in her memory may be made to the Elizabeth G. & Jennifer J. Hildebrandt Hospice Care Center (Lifetime Care, 3111 Winton Road South, Rochester, NY 14623) or Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation (


Allyn, Alfred W. (Papa)

Churchville: Al passed away peacefully in his sleep on January 28, 2017 with his devoted wife Elsie (Bohlayer) & daughter Linda (Patrick) Allyn-Welborn at his side at age 92. He is also survived by his brother Raymond (Jean) Allyn, daughter Donna Antonellis; loving grandchildren Gia (Mark) Burton, Cari (Dan) Lehman, Tony Antonellis, Chelsea Welborn & Trevor Welborn; great-grandchildren Charlotte, J.R. & Vivian; sisters-in-law Janet (Mason) Allyn, Rosemary (Ron) Cohick; nieces; nephews; several devoted caregivers & friends. Al was predeceased by his brothers Ralph, John & Charlie.

He worked alongside his father as a puzzle-maker at Great Lakes Press until their closing, then worked at Mixing Equipment Company until his retirement in 1985. Like his father before him, he was a member of Etolian/Unity Lodge #479 F&AM. During his early life in Gates, he was a proud Boy Scout & member & deacon at Gates Presbyterian Church, joining Ogden Presbyterian Church in 1963. Al & Elsie built their home in Churchville in 1954. Always at each other’s side, they were married for 67 years. We wish to express our deepest gratitude to his home caregivers & the special staff at The Friendly Home for providing Al with exceptional care these last years.

Everyone is invited to the James R. Gray Funeral Home,1530 Buffalo Road on Friday, February 2, 2018 from 4-7 pm & to The Friendly Home, 3156 East Ave. for a Memorial Service on Saturday, February 3, 2018 at 11 am. Kindly consider donating to The Friendly Home, 3156 East Avenue, Rochester, NY 14618.


Carlin, Pete

Gates: On May 3, 1968 Carol & Bruce received a gift not knowing what a true gift this was. Peter taught us love, joy, happiness, class & style that no one else could ever teach us. Peter taught us how to live to the fullest & with dignity – never to judge people & always had a smile on his face. He even taught us how to die with dignity. P.S. Woo Hoo – It’s a party.

Departed from this life on January 26, 2018 at age 49. Predeceased by his father Bruce J. Carlin, Pete is survived by his mother Carol; sister Christine; brother Patrick; aunts Peg (Carl), Donna (Tom), Jacqueline (Mike), Judy (Roger), Eileen (Ruben), Sue (Jerry); one niece; nephews; cousins & friends. Peter worked at JC Penney for 30 years and 6 months at Wegmans. A very special “Thank you” to the ICU staff at Unity Hospital.

No Calling hours. Peter’s Mass will be held Saturday, February 3 at 10 am at Holy Ghost Church, 220 Coldwater Road. Family & friends are invited to a celebration at Local #3, 3750 Monroe Avenue in Pittsford immediately following his Mass.